We are often asked by our friends for advice on their relationships. We believe in simple, straightforward advice that can be easily followed, rather than a drawn-out assessment of motivations and inspirations. We welcome your questions, suggestions and tips. This site is for YOU to learn AND teach! Send us a question and we will give you our advice and even choose several questions each month to highlight on this site!

QUESTION FROM MICHAEL- Mar. 26, 2004:

Dear Rob & Deb,

I just met this girl, and I have talked to her four days in a row now. Should I call her again tonight, even though we have a date on Saturday?

Keep in mind she has pursued me and called and text messaged me alot. I really like her, what should I do? I hate playing games, but should I?

~ Michael

R & D's Reply:

Dear Michael,

Our philosophy is as few games as possible. If you like her and she seems to like you and enjoy talking to you every day, keep up the good work!

Try just being yourself, not playing games and have a great time getting to know her! ! Let us know how it goes on Saturday !

~ R & D

REPLY FROM MICHAEL:

Dear Rob & Deb,

Thank you so much for the help. Saturday went great, I through all the rules out the window, and just did what felt natural.

We went to Knotts Berry Farm, I thought it cool for a second date. She had a good time. It is Friday now, and we are going out again on Sunday.

Thanks again,
~ Michael